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The Map You Were Never Given: Finding Your Way Back to Yourself in Midlife
The Map You Were Never Given: Finding Your Way Back to Yourself in Midlife
What If You Don’t Need to Push Through?
What If You Don’t Need to Push Through?
You Don’t Rush a Scab. So Why Are You Rushing This?
You Don’t Rush a Scab. So Why Are You Rushing This?
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The Map You Were Never Given: Finding Your Way Back to Yourself in Midlife
Nicole Hate Nicole Hate

The Map You Were Never Given: Finding Your Way Back to Yourself in Midlife

She Followed All the Rules, Yet Felt Hollow Inside

Once successful on paper but empty within, a midlife executive discovered that her discomfort wasn't failure—it was her authentic self finally demanding to be heard. See how one conversation sparked her journey from living someone else's script to reclaiming her power, creativity, and true desires. Ready to set your limitations on fire and discover what awaits on the other side?

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You Don’t Rush a Scab. So Why Are You Rushing This?
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You Don’t Rush a Scab. So Why Are You Rushing This?

Here’s the truth no one talks about enough: our brains aren’t reliable narrators when we’re too close to our own pain. They scramble data. Invent meaning. Prioritize comfort over clarity.

Sometimes, the bravest thing you can do isn’t push harder. It’s pause longer. It’s letting discomfort speak without trying to silence it. It’s recognizing that the ache isn’t the enemy—it’s the invitation.

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