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Scroll through my latest conversations, interviews, and on-stage moments—where I unpack what it really takes to break cycles, break free, and build lives that feel like truth, not obligation.

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MY SPECIALTIES

  • Hypnosis + Subconscious Rewiring

    Shift what you believe is possible—deep in the operating system of your mind and body.

  • Gene Keys Guidance

    Decode the blueprint of your gifts, challenges, and evolutionary path using your unique DNA signature.

  • Belief Work + Identity Excavation

    Dismantle old narratives, inherited roles, and internalized limits—without shame or bypass.

  • Midlife Reinvention

    Navigate the liminal space of midlife with clarity, courage, and zero need to apologize for your becoming.

  • Integration Support

    Because transformation without integration just becomes another high. I help you ground your breakthroughs into your everyday life.

  • Sacred Rage + Grief Work

    Make space for the emotions that modern life told you to suppress—so you can reclaim your full aliveness.

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A bold expedition into the untamed wilderness of midlife transformation—where women reclaim their power, rewrite their stories, and rise into unapologetic authenticity.

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Nicole Hate is a midlife liberation provocateur, subconscious guide, and creator of Midlife Moxie with Nicole Hate, a podcast devoted to dismantling bullshit beliefs and reclaiming untamed truth.

She helps women in their 40s and beyond break free from lives that no longer fit—using Gene Keys wisdom, hypnosis, and deep belief work to ignite real transformation.

Known for her fierce clarity, irreverent honesty, and soul-deep compassion, Nicole brings fire to every conversation she enters—whether she’s talking about identity, power, purpose, or the raw mess of becoming.

When Nicole speaks, you don’t just listen. You remember something inside yourself you thought was lost.

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If your space is about authenticity, disruption, and real conversation (not fluff, scripts, or forced empowerment), I’d love to hear from you.

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